8. An unsupportive attitude.
The greatest compliment you can give to someone is to believe in them and let them know you care. When you see something true, good and beautiful in someone, don't hesitate to express your appreciation. When you see something that is not true, good and beautiful in someone, don't neglect to give them your wholehearted blessings and best wishes.
9. Trying to please everyone.
This one is about keeping your sanity. No matter how loud their opinions are, others cannot choose who you are. The question should not be, "Why don't they like me when I'm being me?" it should be, "Why am I wasting all my time and energy worrying what they think of me?" If you are not hurting anyone with your actions, keep moving forward with your life. Be happy. Be yourself. If others don't like it, let them be. Life isn't about pleasing everybody.